Saturday, May 7, 2011

Exercise in Letting Go......

Today, my baby girl decided to get all growed up and do this for the first time......

What an achingly sad and beautiful picture of a parents' journey as we watch our kids grow up....as parents, we let go, painfully aware that letting them go means allowing our kids to fail and experience pain.  Letting go means we lose more control of their lives.  We simultaneously experience the joy that comes from knowing our children are moving towards capability and independence in this world and the gnawing voice that whispers to us that we're not needed anymore.

Anyway, this post is not about a weepy mom, but her determined and happy 4-year-old.  She asked me to help her get on her bike, and once she was on, she started pedalling, drove straight off the driveway and onto the road with her mom, dad and brother running after her, laughing and hollering "Way to go, Taelyn!", and "Get off the road", and "Woohoo!" and "Watch out for that tree!". Big excitement.


Note the determined little lip.....


And cheering her on was her very encouraging, excited big brother!

4 comments:

Jenn said...

I love that she's in a frilly pink dress to learn to ride her bike! YAY Taelyn!! Good job!

Anonymous said...

these are very precious pics!! :D

Dancinglampshade said...

She's almost always in a frilly something or other. A girly girl with a reckless tomboy streak. :)

And yes, to a mama, these are precious moments.

Sheesh said...

Way to go Taelyn! Just remind her to not fall asleep while riding...i've heard those things may run in the family!